How to master uncomfortable conversations (fast)
The quick way to win at the hardest and most impactful skill in Leadership
How to master uncomfortable conversations (fast)
Todays headline chapters are…
WHY do I need to be having these conversations? They’re scary
If I could go back in time
The 5 things you need to know to get good at uncomfortable conversations… (FAST) Including the words I say to myself before any uncomfortable conversation
The full method in HOW to deliver them
WHY do I need to be having these conversations? They’re scary
“A person’s success in life can usually be measured by the number of uncomfortable conversations he or she is willing to have.”
Tim Ferris
In the world of work (or otherwise) it's easy to fall into the trap of being ‘nice’.
We love to shy away from difficult conversations to avoid hurting someone's feelings or creating conflict.
But in the long run in your Leadership journey, this niceness will lead to HUGE issues for yourself and your team. Gossip, surface level relationships, and it’ll put a cap on how successful you truly can become.
To foster a positive, fulfilling and healthy work environment that encourages personal growth and the entire team pushing toward your companies goals, we need to shift from being NICE into being KIND. By delivering the hard truths and having the uncomfortable conversations.
“Uncomfortable conversations aren’t fun … However, stepping into them is an essential ingredient for effective leadership and a hallmark of a successful career.
By being transparent with the other person you open yourself to deeper, stronger connections in life and at work.”
Michelle Gibbings, CEO Magazine
If I could go back in time…
Rewind 7 years, I’m an assistant manager at Harrods in London with a direct team of 8 people. Uncomfortable conversations were my biggest fear. Telling someone about their unacceptable lateness, delivering difficult feedback about the standard of their work, or god forbid firing someone.
But fast forward to 2023 and I am and feel like an expert in these conversations, I’m addicted to having them. Why? Because I see how KIND they are. I see how much it strengthens the humans in my team and the relationships I have with everyone around me.
So if I could go back a few years, these are the few key things I’d tell myself, the secret sauce, to becoming an expert in uncomfortable conversations (and FAST)…
I’ve been testing and mastered these over the last 7 years, and boiled it down to these 5 steps… Here you go 👇
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